Voting Question: I’m worried about my mom?
February 21st, 2010
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Okay, sorry that this is so long. My mom and my step dad have just separated. I've called my step dad my dad since I was four, because my father isn't there for me. Okay, so we got a computer a couple years ago. He started obsessing over it, spending more time with it than with my mom. It was crazy. He and my mom didn't have any kids, only me, which he considered me his daughter. So, when we moved into an apartment due to money issues, we had to put the computer in my parent's room because there wasn't another connection in the apartment. Anyway, so my mom accused my step dad of cheating like, three times on a website called political hotwire. He was cheating, but he was making up excuses. Like on one thing it said, "Where did you go?" On the bottom of the screen, minimized. So she asked him and they fought, and he showed her it was something on a blog he posted about the Rolling Stones, about a tour or something. So things like that happened twice. Then he went crazy., He got a little tape recorder and recorded everything my mom and I said. We talked about him possibly cheating, and she asked me if I could find it on the internet. I said I would try. He said that he would have me prosocuted (His own daughter !) because he heard me hit our dog, Macie, on the tape. But, uh, no. I didn't hit her. When you want a dog to get off the couch, you slap the couch and snap your fingers. But I didn't touch her. He showed the love, right? Anyway, so my mom got on political hot wire a week later, and found where he'd been talking to a woman named Pamela about her. He said my mom never cooked anymore and a lot of things that really weren't true. In the end, this is what had been going on behind our back. 1) He had bought a prepaid cell phone and was talking to Pamela on it while he was at work. (He works third shift) 2) He'd lied to her repeatedly 3) He'd been recording us talking for months. Okay, so he's crazy. He said my mom and grandmother were "plotting against him". He said I hated him, his exact words, "That child hates me." I didn't, before he hurt my mom like that. So, my mom kicked him out. He's back at his mother's, still on that website. In exchange for the computer, my mother got the tape recorder. (It's digital) But he had to make sure the harddrive was in the computer. So my mom is in the bed all the time, moping. When she and my real dad got divorced she had a nervous break down, and I don't want that to happen again. It's getting really bad. What do I do to help her?
Categories: News Aga, Apartment, Blog, Cheating, Couch, Fingers, Grandmother, Hot Wire, Love, Macie, Mom, Money Issues, Pamela, Prepaid Cell Phone, Rolling Stones, Step Dad, Tape Recorder, Third Shift, Three Times, Woman



